Friday, July 25, 2014

Stand up, or SHUT UP!

(Stand up for what you believe in, or shut up about it and get over yourself)

It never fails. Getting angry is one thing that will happen, the reason may be silly, or it may be serious. Regardless, I have the tendency to get so angry that I practically shut down. My heart pounds, my brain races, I feel like I'm gonna murder the next person that crosses my path!  

Like I mentioned in my last post I will constantly think about something even though it does nothing but TEAR ME UP! When someone makes me mad beyond belief I feel like I am going to loose all control!

People don't understand how much I hold my tongue in some situations, and when I finally BURST everyone in a 10 yard radius will feel my wrath! When someone "comes at me" they will never come out on the side of accomplishment. The only good thing that will come of getting in my face is hearing everything you've ever done wrong spill out I front of you and make your entire life feel like a failure. I don't take well to people who put me down just to hurt me, you're setting yourself up for a fight you won't be able to finish. I don't deal with stupid people, it isn't worth my time. If you want to talk to me, or have a discussion you better do it as an adult. 

It amazes me the amount of childish antics someone can partake it when they are an ADULT. I don't play games, I'm 21, not some high schooler who plays "comment bully" on Facebook! People who don't approach me like an adult and leave notes/comments etc. are really not what I want to deal with. Come talk to me like a person, and listen to what I have to say too. I'm tired of people starting DRAMA!!! Yes DRAMA! It's pathetic you're a grown adult. 

If you seriously "Don't care" what people think about you then quit bringing it up. If you think your words are worth the issues that you're expressing don't be mad when someone doesn't like what you have to say! People need to learn what is controversial, and choose if that is something they WANT to get themselves into. If you post a Facebook status about someone and they come across it and get angry don't be mad that they are angry, you chose to represent yourself that way and now you're going to have to deal with the consequences. 

Everything has consequences, if you don't want those consequence then think twice before you open your mouth. You may start a fight that is only pushing you down the mountain leading towards your goals. If you act like trash don't be mad when someone calls you out. If you play the victim don't be angry when someone puts you in your place and shows you why you're wrong. If you don't want to be told you're wrong then don't put yourself in a situation where someone has the ability to judge your actions and words. 

The only way to keep from causing problems is to keep it to yourself. I'm sick of people blaming others for their misfortunes and problems. If you don't want people to talk, don't give them something to talk about. If you think they are full of crap and you've done nothing wrong then don't gripe and just learn to IGNORE them. Talking about it only creates more problems. 

PPPS
    Sorry for the rant. I'm just caught up on stupid people who don't think before they speak. I had to let it out before it became my downfall! 

On another note, I will always stand up for what I believe in, and if you don't like it thats fine by me.... 

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