What is Love??

I’m having a hard time coming to understand how someone could lower their self worth for someone who treats him or her like an option. Lucky for me I have the most perfect man in my life; he treats me like a Princess, and always puts me first.

I view girls all the time who post about the terrible men in their lives, yet the keep returning to them. Just a few months ago an acquaintance on Facebook posted about her “Cheating” husband, she continued on about how he was worthless, abusive, and a terrible person. After a few weeks past she moved on, while still legally married, as he did exploring other options. Now she is posting pictures with him and referring to him as her “Husband” again.

I’m confused…??? Why would you say one minute about how abusive he is, and then go on months later about how you love him and act like all your previous posts never existed.

Now its obvious this girl already has issues because she posts all her most intimate details on Facebook, so returning to an allegedly “abusive” man is not out of left field for this female. All that being said it brings about a good point: Why does anyone get back with a person who treats them so terribly?

I have a hard time understanding why people continue in relationships that are poisonous. Don’t get me wrong, I look back on old relationships and say “what was I thinking,” but I can at least come to that conclusion. I feel like girls lower themselves for a “LOVE” that has no benefit except the idea that there is someone “important” in their lives. If I’ve learned anything from previous mistaken relationships, it is that I’m glad I didn’t waste any more time with them than I did.

I would hate to be with a guy for 3 years and realize he was a jerk, but continue to be with him for another 4 and look back at all the wasted time behind you. In my opinion this would lead someone to feeling like “Since I already wasted seven years on this person I may as well stick around..” To think a whole life could be wasted and when you reach your late 30s you are looking at divorce and having to start a whole new life at an older age. DON’T miss out on growing old with someone who is worth your time, don’t waste it with someone you will regret 15 years down the road!

A reminder for everyone out there:

-       There ARE more and BETTER fish in the SEA!

-       Good people do exist

-       You do not deserve to be treated as anything less than a Princess! Or Prince…

-       You should be with someone who makes you happy, not someone you feel obligated to stay with.

-       If you don’t see a future with someone don’t waste time in the present or you’ll look back and regret your past!