Thursday, February 9, 2017

Super Bowl Body Shaming #BornThisWay

I wanted to take a moment to touch on this previous Super Bowl Half Time show!

First things first, Lady Gaga was absolutely amazing! Her LIVE vocals were on point, she strutted across the stage in heels with poise, and she JUMPED OFF THE FREAKING ROOF! If the stadium had a roof she would have BLOWN it off! I’m pretty biased because I have been a Gaga fan since Just Dance and Starstuck took over the radio in 2008. She is one of my idols, and I even did a project on her in my college communications course. When I was 19 I visited my Dad in NYC and before we went to see Wicked he took me to her families restaurant (Joanne Trattoria) for dinner. I was so elated… I was even brought to tears after I met her mother. I could go on for days as to why she is absolutely amazing in all that she does.

As a lady myself I know the difficulties and pressures society puts on us to be thin. After her outfit change on stage, Gaga wore a two-piece outfit; similar to ones she has worn in many performances before. This time, like others, she has been faced with media saying, “she’s too fat” or “her gut was hanging over her pants.” ARE YOU FREAKING KIDDING ME?! You just saw the result of HOURS of preparation, years of songs, and hard work by not only Gaga, but her costume creator, her back up dancers, her band, and every single person around the stage adding light effects to the performance, and YOU are judging her BODY! That woman has to be a size six at MOST! She is beyond healthy and shows that she has more talent than the majority of the Americans watching the show.

We strive as an Internet society to stop body shaming, we can’t make fun of a woman for being overweight, or say something about someone anorexic. So why do we get to do such things to someone because they are famous. Regardless if we try to stop this garbage talk it still happens, and it is a constant flow from people behind a computer screen. People never say anything publicly because that would be too difficult; it’s easy behind a keyboard to write these hurtful words.

If these people put their pictures on the Internet in the same outfit the comments they write would make more sense. She puts herself out there as an Artist to preform and provide entertainment. If you aren’t entertained change the channel or entertain yourself. Her body, ANYONES body, is not our problem or concern. As many would say, “No wonder women are so self conscious.” They are faced with negative media about a woman whose body would be coveted by the majority.  If I was able to fit into that outfit and look half as good as her I would be ecstatic!

 
Regardless, if I see anyone on my Facebook page or YouTube subscription body shaming her, or any other woman, I will be deleting them. If you wouldn’t say that comment about your own mother, don’t say it about a stranger!

Fortunately, Gaga has taken a wonderful stance on the shaming she has received. She is extremely admirable, and continues to show she is a fantastic role model. Unfortunately, not all women are this strong and resilient, but I hope that her example will continue to empower females, and males, around the world.  

Gaga's Response





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