Bad Parenting.

'Let me start off with a girl I knew from high school. She is currently a mother of two with one on the way, and she's going on 23 years old. Clearly she isn't the smartest considering she's on her third mistake. Don't get me wrong, kids are awesome, but she's still a child herself.  Her first kid is in custody of her parents, and the second has probably never seen a story book in her life. This girl, we will call her Kelsey, cannot hold down a job. She constantly says how she had to quit her job because the people she worked for kept "telling her what to do...." I'm pretty sure that's how a job works.... Clearly I should have called Human resources years ago. She is always on Facebook selling old clothes to make money, and begging people to drive her husband to work saying how they shouldn't be rude and ask for gas money. She always calls people out for judging her parenting skills, and lifestyle. I have a huge theory 'No one would judge you if you didn't share this information about your life.'

No lie she posted this same thing around Christmas. So she continues to get evicted. Real good parent. Maybe if Facebook wasn't her full time job she would get further in her life. She posts several things a day, clearly spending a majority of her time on the internet when she could be working a job. During tax seasons she posted multiple photos of things she wasted her money on with her refund. If you ask me she should have saved it for her bills rather than blowing it like she just won the lottery. 

People who show they are bad parents via Facebook deserve the ridicule. I have two photos that people have actually posted showing they aren't the best of moms. 

I don't see the reason behind taking a dirty selfie while your child is bathing.... Especially one where your crotch is clearly visible. Not very classy. 

I would never judge a person for having a drink in the presence of their child, but let's be moderate about it. The female above posted that she was able to finish her margarita faster than the other two people she was with. So that means all people attending drank a fishbowl sized alcoholic beverage, and one of them was required to drive home... Unless they got a cab... Highly unlikely. (I don't generally give people the benefit of the doubt). 

This leads me into an issue ran into at work the other night. My coworker was asked by a table to have his beer poured into a paper cup because "his son gets upset when he drinks." I don't see that as a good way to fix the problem, maybe you should ignore the beer for one meal. Clearly it causes him more problems than just "upsetting his kid." He drank at least two beers while there.... I can't see why that's necessary. In my opinion he should have drank a soda and gotten over it. Clearly if the kids feelings mean enough for you to disguise the drinking, he may as well just avoided it. That kid will have trust issues if he ever finds out.

It's alright if you drink when you have children, but people shouldn't go to these lengths. 

If you're going to reproduce please get your life together. Get a job, and act responsible. Don't lose your child's trust early, and always provide for them before yourself. 

I may be a bad judge since I don't have kids... I have a cat. But I realize I'm not at a place in life for a child. Especially more than one!