Who is really to blame?

So this idea that I'm about to explain has been one I have witnessed on many levels, and even dealt with personally. Luckily I have not been an idiot when it has happened to me. 

So this comes about because I was watching the news last night and there was a story about Monica Lewinsky. Apparently she has re surfaced to bring about more information from her and Bill Clinton's inappropriate relationship. My issue in this story does not lie with Monica, but with Hilary. According to the news Mrs. Hilary Clinton said "Monica is a nut" and a "looney toon!"  

Now, before we have a political debate I must add that this has nothing to do with the Clinton's specifically;  it has to do with how Hilary views Bill's affairs. Moreover, this has to do with how all females view their boyfriends cheating. 

More often than not I see women blaming "the other woman," and overlooking the fact their boyfriend/husband had sexual relations with someone else! For the most part that other woman owes you nothing, no respect, no empathy! Truth is, they may not even know you exists. The only time you can be mad at the woman is if she is a friend, sister, or someone you are close to. If none of the previous is the case you can only be mad at ONE PERSON... your significant other. 

I always see girls calling out other females for being a tramp, slut, whore, what have you, and ignore the fact their boyfriend is the real criminal. If he loved you he would not kiss or sleep with someone else. It's HIS FAULT. Quit blaming women who owe you nothing, and instead focus on your cheating man; do not let him slip by with his choices! (Notice I did not use the word mistake, it's a choice!) 

When I found out one of my exes cheated on me I didn't blow up on the girl, she didn't even know I was alive, I focused on him. He got a mouth full. I know better than to blame someone who has nothing to do with the choice at hand. He made the choice, not her.

So if you find yourself in this situation, watch what you do! Don't let your man off the hook, don't blame the other woman; realize who should be the one to care about you. (Hint: the same person who cheated on you!)  As mentioned earlier, Monica is not the one to blame, Hilary needs to blame her husband!